Body-language and nonverbal communication

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Self-optimizing surgery

In South-Corea, and not only there, a booming plastic-surgery-industry is to be found. More than twenty percent of the women had picked up the chance to change their bodily, facial expression by this surgery.

In comparison to this, only five percent of the women in the US do this.

Millions of South-Corean people watched the film “Two hundred pounds”. The main protagonist changes her appearance by plastic-surgery. So one could say one main aspect which characterizes the Corean popculture is the whish of self-optimizing. More and more young women want to look like the dancers of the popstar Psy or Kim Tae-Hee. Her face very often is the model for an operation.

So if looking at these women after surgery which person are you aware of? In whose eyes do you look? How does it feel do look into your friend`s eyes and realize the facial expression of some Popstar? Is it yours? that of your friend? Whom are you Aware of? And how do you feel with this Person?

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Eyesight training

Results of a new scientific research show that there’s an intense increase in shortsighted children at school. This increase can be explained by different reasons and backgrounds such as:…………..

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Mystery eyes

“No object is mysterious. The mystery is your eye.”
Elizabeth Dorothea Cole Bowen

E.D.C. Bowen is compared with Jane Austin and Virginia Woolf . She brilliantly wrote about crisis in relationship and the search for  the sense fn life. She was a master in describing the psychology of different characters of people

 A World of Love (1955)

The Little Girls (1964)

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Function of the eyes (an embodyed story -part 8 -)

Eyes are the key:

  • The key in first sight contact
  • The key as it is a visual contact
  • The key which helps to distinguish: YOU and ME
  • The key which proofs that…………….
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Is there a difference between you and me? (An embodyed story -7-)

of course I could relax besides this young lady. I felt quite comfortable lying there when my attention always moved back to these faces. The puppets touched each other and gave the impression ” we belong together”. We are here and we know what we want. We are aware of YOU being here but we do NOT address you. We don`t want you to become important by ………    

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The body in psychotherapy 3 (contact and therapeutic alliance)


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The body in psychotherapy 1

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