Body-language and nonverbal communication


Women and love in China

An intimate portrait women of different generations in Beijing today who discover their sexuality and are immersed in a personal struggle to take control of their lives in a rapidly-changing society dogged by tradition. The film concentrates on two main characters: the older Xiao (50) who was widowed several years ago and is currently trying to create a new life for herself, and the 32-year-old writer Wen Wen. She is what is officially known as a ‘leftover’, a term used in China since 2007 for single, childless women over 27. They are considered a social problem because, despite the fact that many are highly educated and attractive, today’s Chinese males fear their strength and intellect. Sexual psychologist Hongli Zhen, an expert on recent developments in Chinese society provides commentary and context. She gives sex workshops that encourage women –including our main characters – to see their sexuality differently, and use techniques that make them happy. Hongli is our guide through the world of today’s China’s sexual revolution.

Really worth watching and sharing with friends. If you cannot open from China please let me know. I will help you to see the film. 🙂

English trailer:

The German-Chinese Version:


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There is more wisdom in your body than in your deepest philosophy.



老师带领大家练习身体语言感知 摄于2017.05




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Melanie Klein the “mother” of child psychology

Melanie Klein (30 March 1882 – 22 September 1960) is one of the founding figures of psychoanalysis. Building on the discoveries of Sigmund Freud, she recognised the centrality of the infant’s first relationships with its primary caregivers and, most significantly, she elucidated the early mental processes that build up a person’s inner emotional world.

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Bion…..obviously the best analyst following Sigmund Freud

Wilfred Bion, one of the most original and intriguing psychoanalysts after Freud is worth being remembered.

 Wilfred Bion (8 September 1897 – 8 November 1979) has been twinned with Jacques Lacan as “inspired bizarre analysts…who demand not that their patients get better but that they pursue Truth”. ‘Bion’s ideas are highly unique’, so that he ‘remained larger than life to almost all who encountered him’. He has been considered by Neville Symington as possibly “the greatest psychoanalytic thinker…after Freud”. read more:
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13 Habits Of Exceptionally Likable People

Too many people succumb to the mistaken belief that being likable comes from natural, unteachable traits that belong only to a lucky few—the good looking, the fiercely social, and the incredibly talented. It’s easy to fall prey to this misconception. In reality, being likable is under your control, and it’s a matter of emotional intelligence (EQ).

In a study conducted at UCLA, subjects rated over 500 adjectives based on their perceived significance to likability. The top-rated adjectives had….read more here:

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How to detect narcissistic tendencies during dating

What is narcissism?

In way too short, narcissism is a set of coping mechanisms and strategies to deal with unstable self-esteem and low capacity for empathy that results from unmet interpersonal needs in childhood.

So what might that look like in a marriage?  What might it be like to be married to a narcissist?

First, I want to clarify……if interested have a look there:


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New Psychoanalytic Theory Books Published in March 2017

more about coffee with Freud, or what is common together with Freud, Marx and Einstein. Or sexuality or the late Freud. Or if you believe it or not about the anti-Ödipus. Just have a look.

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Sartre and existentialism

Sartre was certainly the most famous French writer, as well as one of the best-known living philosophers. Introducing Sartre explains the basic ideas inspiring his world view, and pays particular attention to his idea of freedom. It also places his thinking on literature in the context of the 20th century debate on its nature and function. It examines his ideas on Marxism, his enthusiasm for the student rebellion of 1968, and his support for movements of national liberation in the Third World. The book also provides a succinct account of his life, and especially of the impact which his unusual childhood had on his attitude towards French Society.

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How to Cure Anxiety — One Workaholic’s Story, Six Techniques That Work

Do you feel a constant sense of dread? Do you have trouble breathing, relaxing, and sleeping? Do you worry that you’re losing control, or that you’re going to die?

In other words: are you trapped in your own personal hell?

You want to overcome? Here is a try. Have a look and of course try to do it in your daily life.

How to Cure Anxiety — One Workaholic’s Story, Six Techniques That Work

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Winnicott`s birthday today

Winnicott conceptualized the psyche of the child as developing in relation to a real, influential parent. For a child to develop a healthy, genuine self, as opposed to a false self, Winnicott felt, the mother must be a “good-enough mother” who relates to the child with “primary maternal preoccupation.”

Winnicott’s theory is especially innovative regarding his conceptualization of the psychic space between the mother and Infant….read more


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